Did You Know...

Did you know that, at least in California, you can be a Deputy Commissioner of Marriages. You can marry someone, at least for the day you are commissioned. Isn't that great. You can find out so much information on the internet. A bride and/or groom can have anyone they want marry them. Fathers or mothers can marry their children, brothers can marry sisters etc. I think that is such a great idea as it makes for such a personalized and individualized special occasion. You don't have to be married by an impersonal third party such as a justice of the peace. This is also useful for people of an inter-religious union. No more squabbling about which "church" member will marry them. Of course that will impact on their profits as they make money performing such ceremonies. Also great for private ceremonies. Surprise!! One can elope, yet still make it personal, with a little advance planning. I think it's the romantic streak in me that finds this such a great idea. Imagine the possibilities....

Professional Courtesy

What has happened to professional courtesy. As a real estate agent in California I do not have info on properties in other states. Today I called a "sister" office in another state requesting basic info regarding a property in their locale. Did I get any help? Of course not. I got a generic "we'll call you back." I got creative and found out the info all by myself. But, if a need arose, would I call this office back offering them business. Heck NO!!! What is sad is this has happened twice now with the same company, albeit in a different state. The joys of being a part of a nationwide company. I left multiple messages a year ago requesting info on a parcel of land. Not even the courtesy of a reply. Very frustrating. Ever heard of building a relationship?? Not that you would do things for an ulterior motive, but if you make friends with others it's much better karma (not that I believe in karma, but couldn't think of another appropriate word). I have no problem giving out info to friends who I know are not in the market of buying/selling something, just because they need the info. Did it hurt me in any way? No. Takes probably all of 5 minutes of my time. On the flip side, there are others who use people just for info, then go in a totally different direction, but I digress.... All I ask from people is to display a basic human kindness. But if people are not helpful, be creative. Answers are out there...use your imagination, be resourceful and you'll find them.